When it comes to getting inside your garments, a guy will go to any length. So how can you tell if he’s sincere or just seeking a reason to sleep with you?
1. He will never take you out on a real date. A serious guy would take you out on dates. Real-life dates. If you’re dating or hooking up with a guy who has never asked you out on a date, this is a huge red flag. When you’re invited out for drinks at 9 p.m., it’s not a date.
When a man truly cares about you, he wants you to know it, and he wants to treat you well and show you off. You should think twice about spending any more time with him if he hasn’t taken you out for supper or lunch at least once.
2. He’s simply a nocturnal creature. This is a red flag if the person you’re dating calls you exclusively late at night and never during the day. And when he calls, it’s always intending to ask you over; he’s not looking for love. He doesn’t want to be around you unless it’s under the sheets. If you want to hook up with him, keep seeing him after dark. However, if you desire actual relationships, love, and sentiments in your life, it’s time to cast him out.
3. He never puts you in contact with anyone else. A man who truly loves you will be proud of you, date you and want to introduce you to his family and friends. When a guy likes you, he will go out of his way to introduce you to everyone he can. If you’re always referred to as “just a friend” or if you never meet anyone he knows, you’re simply a hookup he’d prefer to keep secret.
4. He is unconcerned about your friends and relatives. It’s safe to believe the person you’re dating is only interested in hooking up with you if he doesn’t seem interested in learning about your family, friends, or the story about your family dog.
The truth is that no matter how many times you ask yourself the same question or how many others you consult for advice, you will almost always get the same answer. If you have doubts about the guy you’re seeing and believe he isn’t as interested in you as you are in him, you’re probably correct.
